Life is playing a game, for some guys it's chess, with all its logics and regulations. for some other it may be roulette, all handled with chance. if you are the kind like me, supposed to play backgammon in this game, considering it half chance half logics:
rule number one in this club is to play just once, then wait for your component to play.
rule number two, don't try to speed up your component to play faster.
rule number three, do not try to force him/her to play your desired move...
life is a game, you gotta play with multiple guys at the moment, so sit back and relax. you've got lot's of opportunities to win or lose...